07 March 2009

Anoinkyalylylom

Do we all need an anchor point in our lives? Right now, i really feel i need something to hold on to, something to be my anchor point. I dont know what that exactly means but the word Anchor describes the thing i'm searching for at this point of time. But what exactly is it?
I tried to find it out from Mahru. She said, get married. Then she said, make yourself your own anchor point, i didn't understand both the ideas. How that'll bring a centre of gravity into my life. I know she prolly was kidding about both the ideas, but i wasn't. I've always loved change. But change without a centre of gravity goes on to lead one astray probably. Maybe.

16 comments:

Anonymous said...

pocha bhi tu kis say :p
and she wasnt kidding :D

m.h.a said...

Wasn't kidding about wat?

Unknown said...

i suggest u make urself your own anchor point...

i hav been good since i did that :)

S. said...

Wot does Anoinkyalylylom mean ??

m.h.a said...

@sami
i know, but i'm still looking as to how to do that

@sana
thats a word from zulu language......not..lol, just kidding, i was half sleepin so i tapped random keys lol...means nothing. Thanks for dropping by waisay, keep comin...

Unknown said...

try to b selfish... think of how things will effect u b4 they will effect ur parents/friends/family weghera... !!!

m.h.a said...

Thats being self centred nothing else, something i'd rather not be.

Unknown said...

thats the path to makin urself your lifes anchor...

u might wanna try the other option then !

m.h.a said...

Lol yeah the other option is better then. But thats not the only path to making yourselves your own anchor. I'm sure there're more. I think i'll try to find those out.

Unknown said...

to b the anchor u hav to learn to rely on urself on all times... and to do that u hav to isolate urself from others...

good luck :)

Tazeen said...

For the first time, I really don't know what to say. Guess I just feel the same.

Summer Cutee said...

i wasnt kidding abt both of em idiot!!
anyways i dun agree with sami abt becoming isolated...its more of becoming independent...
u have to learn to become ur own best friend and be sure that there is a confidante residing within u...that is ur own kryptonite!

Anonymous said...

see i told you she wasnt kidding

ghufran said...

I dont know how exactly u feel, but i sometimes feel so empty from within. A strange void plus a sweet pain and an unexplained sadness .

P.s. If were to hold on to something, i wud definitely look for something better than me. Something/one, who collects me when i am scattered all over. Someone in whose presence i m vulnerable yet strong at the same time. Someone who wud be the objective of my life.

ghufran said...

Oh and good post , keep it up.

m.h.a said...

@taz
yeah we feel the same...sometimes we dont have answers to simple questions

@mahru
well said and i've noticed thats not impossible, just a little hard to do but yes, very much doable

@mubi
yeah i knew lol

@gohar
thanks man first of all, see i've conflicting suggestions so i'll have to ponder it over myself again to realise which one is correct or if neither is. Thanks for coming and hope to see you around.